Let's start with the basic rules:

Rule #1: Do not have more than four toasts. 
Rule #2: Set a maximum length of three minutes.
Rule #3: Follow rules number one and two! 

And now, some tips for making your toast a big hit.

Don't ever consume alcohol before you give a toast. Trust me on this one. Also, this is not a comedic roast — keep it sweet, keep it endearing, and move it along quickly. I really don't need to hear about the funny things that happened in college or the things the bride and groom did with their ex-boyfriends and girlfriends... awkward! It's a wedding, not a college party. If you want to add humor, a little comedy goes a long way. 

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